Remembering Dorothy Day

admin • Oct 26, 2020

In anticipation of our upcoming commemoration of the the 40th anniversary of Day’s death on November 29th 2020, we remember the eulogy given by Father Geoffrey B. Gneuhs, O.P. at the funeral of Dorothy Day, Nativity Church, New York City, December 2, 1980.

Eulogy

In her book The Long Loneliness , Dorothy wrote, “All my life I have been haunted by God.” And where did this haunting God lead her? To a life of simplicity and poverty with the poor, to solidarity with the outcasts—today in this city of New York there are more and more people homeless as mental hospitals close and social services are cut back, while at the same time this country spends $170 billion a year for armaments.

This haunting God led Dorothy to jail because she spoke and acted for the rights of women and men, of laborers and workers; she was led to jail because she stood with the farm workers, and to prison because she would not tolerate the militarist posture of this country. She was led ultimately to community, to love. This being haunted by God became for her a stupendous and extraordinary pilgrimage, a pilgrimage of faith. For sure, the Sermon on the Mount sums up the entire life and spirit of Jesus, and it is an invitation which Dorothy with consummate conviction accepted. She realized that love is an exchange of gifts: the gift of faith, and she in turn offered the gift of her life lived in faith, given for us and thousands of others. The Sermon on the Mount, along with the 25th chapter of St. Matthew, the cornerstone of the Catholic Worker movement, is not some general guide or optional outline. It is the very expression of the flesh and blood of Jesus—the Incarnation of Truth.

In our country, those who have so much, too much, are apt to declare “Well, the poor you’ll always have with you”—not realizing or hearing Jesus speak the Truth in the Sermon, not hearing the Truth call out. That is precisely the point. Christ the poor one is always with us!

Dorothy, with dear Peter Maurin, of whom she wrote, “He was my master and I was his disciple, he gave me a way of life,” realized this Truth so well. She said, “What a simplification of life it would be if we saw Christ everywhere we go.” Did you give me clothes? Did you give me food? Did you give me shelter in the empty room in your home, of your rectory or priory?

To love, for her, was not a duty but a privilege. And should it not be for all of us? It begs the question: Do we want to meet Christ? Do we really believe? We do not have to go far to see Christ, to invite Christ, and to be invited by Christ. The invitation is offered for loaves and fishes, more often at our houses, soup and bread and tea. To those of us who doubt, to us Christians who waver, Dorothy showed by her love that, yes, the Gospel is possible. The Gospel is so possible it is now and cannot wait for the future. The moment is ours. Dorothy seized the moment given her. The Truth called her forth and she accepted the invitation—solidarity with those without the arrogance and dominance of wealth, power, and prestige. She lived the Truth with all its starkness and abruptness, with all its freedom and its love.

She wrote, “We cannot love God unless we love each other and to love we must know each other—and we will know Him in the breaking of the bread—and then we are not alone anymore. Heaven is a banquet and life is a banquet too, even with a crust, where there is companionship.” Love is not meant to be a half measure, nor is it meant to be easy. Dorothy on her pilgrimage knew that violence and war are not the way of Christ, that love is the only measure. Thus Truth again called her forth and she accepted the invitation to speak out against war and the crucifixion of humanity by nuclear armaments.

Wouldn’t it be a tragedy for us to equivocate or to dilute the spirit of her life? She was utterly convinced of the rightness of pacifism and of nonviolent resistance to statism. And never, even at age 83, did she waver in the clarity of her vision of Truth and in her conviction. Today the romance of war and power and individualism ignores the capacity of the human imagination imaged in God to see and to live the Gospel of gentle personalism and unconditional love. And Dorothy loved life, believed in life, enjoyed life. It was the very life of a child that welled up in her the invitation to the pilgrimage. In St. John’s Gospel, Jesus says, “I have come to bring life, to bring life more abundantly.”

Remember when Jesus was on trial for his actions of Truth? He said to Pilate, “Mine is not a kingdom of this world. If my kingdom were of this world, my men would have fought…. I came into the world for this: to bear witness to the truth and all who are on the side of truth listen to my voice.”

And what was Pilate’s reply? “Truth,” he said, “what is truth?” In a truthless world, some have struggled to listen to His voice and to continue to speak Truth—the Truth of Christ. And one was Dorothy: in her commitment to justice, to freedom and to peace, her resistance to the kingdoms of this world, and her unflinching commitment to the belief that love will redeem the world, Dorothy had a dream of this Truth, the dream became a vision, and the vision became a light for the world. The Truth guided her pilgrimage and she admitted, “We confess to being fools and wish that we were more so.” Oh, thank God for such foolishness!

And so Dorothy, the pilgrimage is over. You’re home now. The Truth invites you to the eternal banquet.


Archived Comments

Gene R says:

January 4, 2023 at 9:31 am

Ms. Quirk:


You would get a kick out of reading Merton and Day’s letters where they comment on the activities of some of their pals.

Here is one of my favorites from Merton’s journal after news reached him about the Catonsville Nine action 1968:

“Berrigan is a bit theatrical these days, now he’s a malefactor–with a quasi-episcopal disarmament emblem strung around his neck.”

Dorothy’s first reactions to the Catonsville action itself were from her gut. Was property destruction nonviolent?

She remembered, as a twenty-something, her own office at a socialist paper in NY being ransacked by the cops, as a traumatic assault. The golden rule seemed to apply.

“I understand the grief, the horror, but I do not think them right. These [Catonsville-type actions] are not ours,” she said more than once.


Karen Quirk says:

March 12, 2022 at 5:37 pm

I have recently given a talk here in Anchorage, Alaska at the public library on February 16, 2022 about Dorothy Day, her life and her correspondence with the monk, Thomas Merton. I found the two did not agree on everything — and Dorothy was quite straightforward when such differences arose — I continue to be amazed at how many here in our small community who could not attend the presentation are begging me to give another such talk. I have felt it all falls on Dorothy Day and her intercession and who is praying from her home now with Jesus. So many see her as so pertinent to our current society and its ills. It has given me much to research. What began with the Alaska Chapter meeting of the International Thomas Merton Society and the letters of Dorothy and Merton written between 1959 and 1968, most famously Merton’s Cold War Letters….her life and love of peace and of the Church teachings stirred the hearts of so many here in the Last Frontier. Merton in 1968 visited Alaska prior to his trip to Asia and meeting his untimely death there — he contemplated making Alaska his home — as he said, a good place for a hermitage. For more on his Alaska trip, see: Merton in Alaska (taken from his journal and letters back to friends and his Father Abbot). Also see Kathleen Tarr’s memoir entitled, We Are All Poets Here which details her personal spiritual journey. her life in Alaska, intertwined with the places and people Merton visited 50 years ago.

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